If you recently brought home an adorable kitten, you may be wondering when it’s appropriate for them to sleep in your bed. Curling up with a purring ball of fur can be comforting, but kittens have some developing to do first.

If you’re short on time, here’s the quick answer: veterinarians typically recommend waiting until a kitten is at least 6 months old before allowing them to sleep in your bed overnight. Kittens younger than this still need overnight care and supervision that’s best provided in a dedicated kitten space, not your bed.

Setting Up a Safe Kitten Sleep Space

Designate a Roomy Area

When preparing an area for your kitten to sleep, it’s important to designate a spacious zone that allows them to spread out comfortably. Kittens are active sleepers, often changing positions frequently.

According to the ASPCA, kittens need about 18-20 hours of sleep per day as they grow, so ensuring they have sufficient room to nestle in is key.

Aim to provide at least a 3 ft x 3 ft space for sleeping. This gives your energetic feline ample area to curl up small or stretch out long. Place a plush pet bed, soft blanket, or cardboard box with cozy bedding in the zone to entice settling in.

Locate the spot away from high traffic areas that could disturb your kitten’s slumber.

Litter Box Access

While a dedicated sleeping area for your kitten is important, it should be situated near their litter box for easy overnight access. According to The Spruce Pets, kittens cannot hold their bladder or bowels for long periods initially.

So placing the litter box no more than 10-20 feet from their bed reduces accidents.

Be sure the path is clear between the sleep spot and litter box. Block access under furniture or in tight spaces to guide your kitten to the right location. Using a night light or plug-in lamp can help illuminate the way when nature calls at night.

Soft Bedding

The right bedding materials make all the difference in kitten comfort. Stick to soft, cozy fabrics that your cat can snuggle into. Fleece and faux sheepskin bed liners or washable plush pet beds work well.

Avoid loose beddings like feathers or fibers that could be inhaled or woven fabrics with holes for claws to catch on.

Place 2-3 inches of cushioning to allow your kitten to nestle in comfortably. Natural materials like cotton and wool tend to hold warmth better than synthetic blends. Using an enclosed pet bed helps felines feel secure while providing insulation.

Adjust bedding as needed with seasonal temperature changes.

By preparing an ample, peaceful sleep zone close to litter facilities and outfitted with soft bedding, you can help your kitten get the quality rest they need to grow.

Why Kittens Under 6 Months Shouldn’t Sleep in Your Bed

Supervision Overnight

Kittens under 6 months old still require close supervision, especially at night. Their little bodies need lots of sleep, but they may still get up frequently to play or explore. If left unsupervised on an adult’s bed, they could fall off or get stuck somewhere dangerous.

An 8 week old kitten would have a nasty fall tumbling off a queen or king sized mattress. Best to keep kittens in a safe kitten proofed room or enclosure at night.

Potty Training

Kittens have tiny bladders and need to eliminate frequently. Until a kitten is reliably using the litter box, you’ll likely experience some accidents. Allowing a kitten under 6 months to sleep in your bed increases the chances of them peeing on your expensive mattress or blankets.

To avoid this frustrating and smelly situation, it’s best to wait until your kitty is fully potty trained before bed sharing.

Beds Too High to Jump Down From

Kittens love to play, but their coordination and spatial awareness is still developing. Jumping off tall objects can lead to injuries at this young age. With some beds at two feet or higher off the ground, it would be unsafe for a tiny kitten to be jumping on and off throughout the night.

Provide kittens a way to get in and out of an adult bed before allowing them to sleep there regularly.

Health and Growth Milestones to Meet First

Before allowing a young kitten into your bed, it is wise to ensure they have reached some key health and development milestones. This helps prevent issues and ensures a happy, healthy kitten.

Vaccinations Against Serious Diseases

Vets recommend kittens receive a full course of core vaccinations to protect them against dangerous diseases like feline panleukopenia, calicivirus and feline herpesvirus. According to the American Veterinary Medical Association (AVMA), kittens should receive a series of vaccine doses starting as early as 6 weeks old, with boosters every 2-4 weeks until 16-20 weeks of age.

Spay or Neuter Surgery

It’s advised to have kittens spayed or neutered between 4-6 months old before allowing close overnight contact. As the ASPCA outlines, this surgery reduces undesirable behaviors that could disrupt sleep like roaming, spraying and mating calls.

Developed Immune System and Bladder Control

Kittens don’t develop a fully functioning immune system until around 14 weeks old. Allowing kittens into beds too early risks exposing them to bacteria and viruses. Similarly, kittens generally achieve full bladder control by 16 weeks. This reduces messy overnight accidents in the bed!

The 4 month (16 week) mark is therefore generally considered the minimum age a kitten should sleep with you. At this point, they’ve had all vaccinations, been fixed and developed more bodily control.

Gradually Transition Kittens to Sleeping in Bed

First Introduction During the Day

The key to successfully transitioning a kitten to sleeping in bed with you is taking it slow and gradual. Start by bringing your kitten into your bedroom during the day and letting them get used to the sights, sounds and smells.

Place them on the bed so they can explore the blankets and pillows while you are there to supervise. Give them pets and treats to create positive associations. Spend time playing with toys on the bed to get them comfortable in that space.

The more time they spend in the bedroom and on the bed during daylight hours, the more normal it will feel to them at night.

Move Bed Near Yours at Night

After a few days of introductions, you can start having your kitten sleep in your bedroom at night, but not directly in your bed yet. Set up their bed, toys and litter box nearby, such as at the foot of your bed.

This allows them to be close by and get used to nighttime sounds and movements while still having their own designated sleeping space. Make sure to give them lots of affection and play before bedtime. Having familiar scents and textures from their own bed will help them feel secure.

You can try feeding them a snack right before bed to help them associate the bedroom with something positive.

Supervise the First Few Nights

Once your kitten seems comfortable sleeping near your bed at night, you can try allowing them to sleep directly in your bed. The first few nights should be closely supervised. Watch their behavior – if they seem restless, anxious or begin playing, gently guide them back to their own bed.

Some kittens may not be ready to spend the whole night with you. Take it slowly and don’t force it. Reward calm behavior in the bed with pets and treats. Eventually, your kitten will likely join you for at least part of the night. Just be patient during the adjustment period.

With time, they will become snuggly bed buddies.

The key is making the transition gradual and creating positive experiences. Going slow allows kittens to become secure with new environments. While precocious kittens may be ready sooner, most experts recommend waiting until a kitten is at least 6 months old before having them sleep through the whole night with you.

With proper introductions, your kitten can become comfortable and content sleeping in bed to get those adorable cuddles. Just be patient and let them set the pace.

Setting Boundaries with Good Sleep Etiquette

Discourage Biting and Scratching

Kittens explore the world with their mouths, so they may innocently nibble or bite you while sleeping. Say “no” firmly and remove them from your bed. Redirect them to appropriate toys instead. With patience and consistency, kittens can learn that human skin isn’t an appropriate chew toy.

Try trimming their nails regularly to reduce accidental scratches.

Don’t Allow Access if Unwell

It’s best not to sleep with a kitten if they are ill. Kittens don’t have full immunity until around 16 weeks old, so they can pass communicable diseases to humans more easily. While the risks are low, it’s sensible to keep sick kittens isolated.

Once a vet confirms they aren’t contagious, you can resume snuggling at bedtime.

Respect Your Sleep Needs

Kittens are often very active at night, which can disrupt your sleep. If a rambunctious kitten repeatedly wakes you, consider confining them to their own bed at night. An enclosed crate with soft bedding can prevent overnight mischief. You want to prioritize your sleep health.

As your kitten matures, they will likely become better sleep companions.

With some patience and training, kittens can learn proper etiquette for sharing a sleeping space. Set reasonable boundaries while also enjoying those irresistible kitten cuddles. With a little work, you’ll have many cozy, peaceful nights of sleep ahead.


Bringing a kitten into your bed too early can pose safety risks and impact sleep for both of you. But with patience and proper precautions, you’ll eventually enjoy a lifelong cuddle companion once your kitten matures a bit. Establishing good habits early makes for smooth bed sharing down the road.

Similar Posts