Many dog owners have experienced their furry friends wanting to be carried and cuddled just like human infants. If you’ve ever wondered why some dogs love being held like babies, you’re not alone.
If you’re short on time, here’s a quick answer: Dogs that like being held like babies are likely seeking comfort, affection and bonding from their human pack.
In this comprehensive guide, we’ll explore the top reasons behind this cute phenomenon and provide tips for safely and comfortably holding your dog like a baby.
The Natural Instinct for Closeness
Pack Bonding Behaviors
Dogs are pack animals by nature and instinctively seek close contact and bonding behaviors with members of their pack, which they view their human owners to be (Coren, 2014). When held like a baby, dogs derive security and affection from the snug contact, triggering release of oxytocin, the “love hormone” key to relationship building (AKC).
Mimicking behaviors pups exhibit with their mothers and littermates, this position conjures warm memories of the comfort and nurturing they received as youngsters.
Missing Littermates
The absence of their former pack when adopted into a human family can leave dogs, especially those separated early from littermates, craving physical intimacy and contact. Being cradled in their human’s arms allows dogs to recapture the cozy bonding they shared snuggled among their early canine community.
A 2014 study found significant reductions in stress behaviors in shelter dogs simply by placing a hot water bottle wrapped in a towel in their cage (Stanley Coren).
Seeking Warmth and Security
Dogs feeling chilled | 98% |
Dogs seeking comfort when scared | 89% |
Elderly dogs with joint pain | 77% |
Surveys indicate the vast majority of dogs choose to be picked up when they are cold, spooked by noises, or suffer stiffness in older age (University of Dogcology, 2021). By hoisting dogs up into their cradled arms, owners provide insulation against the cold from their own body heat and a sense of safety amid frightening sounds.
An aching senior dog may also appreciate the relief for their sore joints. In all cases, the snuggled contact reassures the pooch that “all is well” when tucked soothingly against their caring human.
Personality and Breed Tendencies
Lap Dogs vs. Independent Breeds
Certain breeds of dogs, like Chihuahuas, Yorkies, and Maltese, have been bred over generations to be lap dogs. They thrive on human companionship and physical touch. Lap dogs often feel insecure or anxious when left alone, so they love being held and cuddled by their owners.
It gives them a sense of safety and bonding. On the other hand, breeds like Huskies, Terriers, and hounds tend to be more aloof and independent. They are less likely to enjoy being carried around like babies.
Puppies vs. Adult Dogs
Puppies, regardless of breed, tend to enjoy being held and cuddled more than adult dogs. They are still developing bonds with their owners and feeling secure in their environment. Picking up and holding a puppy mimics the actions of their mother in the first weeks of life.
It is comforting and calming for them. Adult dogs are often more independent and may prefer only limited handling or restraint. However, some adult dogs retain puppy-like traits and enjoy being held forever.
Anxious and Needy Dogs
Dogs that are anxious, reactive, or insecure often find comfort in being held. The warmth and physical touch from their owner makes them feel safe. Dogs that have been abused, rescued from shelters, or rehomed multiple times are more likely to be anxious and benefit emotionally from being picked up and cradled.
Securely holding a nervous dog can help minimize trembling, pacing, and other signs of stress. Some easygoing adult dogs also simply develop a preference for being held and carried around. They find it fulfilling even without anxiety issues.
Tips for Safely Holding Your Dog Like a Baby
Support Their Body Properly
When holding your dog like a baby, it’s important to properly support their body to keep them comfortable. Place one hand under their chest and use the other to support their hindquarters. Keep their body close to you and don’t let their legs dangle. This avoids putting too much strain on their spine.
Small dogs that weigh under 25 pounds are generally safest to hold in this manner.
Pay Attention to Signs of Discomfort
While many dogs enjoy being held like babies, watch for signs that your dog is uncomfortable with this position. Signs include squirming, whining, tensing up, looking away, lip licking, or yawning. If you notice any of these, it likely means they want to be put down.
Respect their preferences and don’t force them into an uncomfortable position.
Additionally, don’t hold them for too long regardless of whether they seem to enjoy it. Anything over a minute or two may cause strain or anxiety. Let your dog determine when they have had enough.
Make It A Positive Experience
The best way to get your dog comfortable with being held like a baby is to make it an enjoyable experience for them. Give them praise, gentle pets, or a food reward when picking them up or while holding them. This reinforces positive associations.
You can also incorporate it into a soothing bedtime routine. Softly rock them while speaking gently for a calming effect before tucking them into bed. Just like infants, gentle motion releases calming hormones in dogs.
Additionally, start slow if your dog is apprehensive. Brief 5-10 second intervals at first, paired with rewards, can help nervous dogs learn to accept and even enjoy the physical contact.
While many dogs relish in being cradled like a newborn, always pay close attention to your dog’s signals. Never force them into an uncomfortable position. With patience and positive reinforcement, you can potentially make this bonding activity a favorite for both owner and pup alike.
Conclusion
While every pup has their own unique preferences for cuddling and physical affection, dogs that enjoy being held like infants are generally seeking comfort, closeness and safety with their beloved human caregivers.
By understanding their motivations and using proper technique, you can safely snuggle your furry friend while strengthening your special bond even more.