The loss of a loved one is always difficult, but our canine companions seem to understand and share our grief. Dogs form strong bonds with their human families, so it’s no surprise that they react when they sense a death is approaching or has occurred.
In this article, we’ll explore the behaviors and signs that dogs exhibit when they detect the end of life is near for someone they love.
If you’re short on time, here’s a quick answer: Dogs may become clingy, anxious, lethargic, or restless when they sense a death in their human family. They may whine, pace, lose appetite, or stay close to the dying person. However, each dog reacts differently based on the situation.
How Do Dogs Know When Death Is Near?
Dogs have an uncanny ability to sense when death is near, even if the person dying is not their owner. Here are some of the ways dogs can pick up on the impending passing of a loved one:
Their keen senses pick up on subtle cues
Dogs have extremely sensitive noses that can detect very subtle changes in scent. They may notice a certain “smell of death” that alerts them to chemical changes occurring in a body as it shuts down. Their hearing is also acute – they may pick up on subtle sounds or lack of movement that humans would not detect.
They notice changes in routine and environment
Dogs are very attuned to patterns and routine. If a family member who is dying starts spending more time in bed, not moving around as much, or disruptions occur in the household, dogs notice. Their intuition tells them something is different.
Changes in the environment, household patterns, and their owners’ behaviors can clue them in.
They’re empathetic and form close bonds
Dogs are pack animals that form strong social connections. When a family member is dying, dogs often stay close by their side. Their empathy and ability to sense emotions allows them to pick up on psychological distress and “feel” when the end is near.
Since dogs have powerful bonds with their people, they are sensitive to impending loss.
With their sharp senses, intuition, empathy, and devotion, it’s no wonder that dogs seem to intuit when a loved one is transitioning between life and death. They truly are amazing companions.
Behaviors Dogs Exhibit When Sensing Impending Death
Becoming clingy and staying close
When a dog senses that a person is nearing death, one of the most common behaviors exhibited is becoming velcro-like and insisting on staying by the dying individual’s side. The dog strongly desires physical closeness and seeks to curl up on the bed, lay its head on the person’s lap, or find other ways to maintain constant contact.
This tendency to cling demonstrates the dog’s loyalty and affection during difficult times.
Anxiety and restlessness
Some dogs may pace back and forth, seem unable to get comfortable laying down, pant excessively, or engage in other restless behaviors when they feel a loved one’s health deteriorating. They can detect subtle bodily changes and scents that humans cannot, which puts them on high alert.
The uncertainty of knowing something is wrong but not what may happen can cause anxiety. Gentle massages, a weighted blanket, or calming treats can help soothe an anxious dog.
Changes in appetite and energy levels
When focused on their sick human companion, some dogs lose interest in toys, walks, and even food – things they previously loved. Alternatively, others seem to overeat or act demanding for treats and attention as a self-soothing behavior.
These appetite and energy level changes reflect dogs processing grief and traumatic events the only way they know how – something that owners should be patient with rather than scolding them for.
Guarding or watching over the dying person
Dogs have an inherit instinct to alert, guard, and protect their pack. When death draws near, your pup may park himself at the foot of the bed, place his chin resting on the person’s hospice bed, or stare intently at their face – refusing to leave their side even for a moment.
This loyal guarding behavior brings comfort to both the dying individual and the family knowing that their beloved pet is there until the very end.
Comforting Your Dog During This Difficult Time
Keeping to routines when possible
Dogs thrive on routine, so keeping to their regular schedule of feeding, walking, playtime, etc. can provide comfort when their world is disrupted by the loss of a family member. Make an effort to keep your dog’s routines as normal as possible.
It gives them a sense of safety and security during an unsettling time.
Providing affection and reassurance
Dogs are very in tune with our emotions, so the grief you feel may worry your dog. Give them plenty of affection, speak to them in a calm and reassuring voice, and consider using calming aids like a Thundershirt to ease their anxiety. Extra playtime and cuddles can comfort both you and your pup.
Accommodating their needs
Your dog may act clingy and want to be close to you as you grieve. Accommodate this need for nearness by keeping them with you more than usual. Understand if they have less of an appetite or seem distracted on walks. Patience and adjusting to their needs helps them feel secure.
Involving them in funeral/grieving activities
If appropriate, include your dog in funeral gatherings and remembrance activities. Let them be present at the funeral home or cemetery to smell and see that their loved one is gone. Looking at photos together of the deceased can also help them understand the loss.
Their participation brings comfort to many grieving families.
Losing a loved one is hard on dogs too. With patience, affection and keeping their routine in mind as much as possible, you can ease your pup through this difficult transition and comfort each other.
When To Be Concerned About Your Dog’s Behavior
If anxiety or changes persist beyond a few weeks
It’s normal for dogs to grieve the loss of a person or animal companion for a few weeks. They may seem anxious, restless, or withdrawn. But if these behavior changes drag on longer than 3-4 weeks, it’s time to be concerned.
Prolonged grief can lead to depression, loss of appetite, and lack of interest in normal activities.
According to the ASPCA, you should contact your vet if your dog’s anxiety or sadness persists beyond a month. They may recommend anti-anxiety medication or other treatment to help your dog cope.
Loss of appetite beyond a couple of days
Refusing food for more than 2 days is a red flag. Your dog may skip a meal or two initially if grieving a loss. But an extended lack of appetite can lead rapidly to weight loss, lethargy, and organ damage.
Try tempting your dog with favorite wet foods or home cooked meals. If they still won’t eat after 2 days, get them assessed by a vet. Underlying illness could cause inappetence too. With treatment, most dogs regain normal appetite.
Signs of depression like loss of interest in activities
Dogs naturally enjoy playtime, walks, car rides and other regular activities. When grieving, they may lack that normal enthusiasm at first. But prolonged disinterest in 2 weeks+ suggests depression.
Other symptoms include:
- Excessive sleeping and withdrawal
- Destructive chewing or digging
- Loss of housetraining
- Excessive vocalization like whining or howling
Your vet can prescribe antidepressants and recommend more mental stimulation to lift your dog’s mood. Consistency helps dogs overcome depression too.
Destructive behaviors like chewing or soiling in the house
Some destructive behavior is normal for grieving dogs, especially anxious chewers. But frequent or ongoing damage indicates deeper distress requiring intervention.
Mild Cases | Severe Cases |
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Chewing 1-2 minor household items | Shredding furniture, drywall, doors |
1-2 indoor urine accidents | Regular uncontrolled urination/defecation |
For mild cases, try more interactive toys/chews and confinement when alone. Clean soiled areas thoroughly with enzymatic cleaner. If destructive behaviors don’t improve in 2 weeks or damage is extensive, seek veterinary help. Medication and training may be needed.
Working Through the Grieving Process Together
Being patient and allowing them to grieve too
Dogs form strong bonds with their human families, so when a loved one dies it can be very difficult and confusing for them too. Some signs your dog may display during this time include appetite changes, restlessness, anxiety, clinginess, and lethargy. Be patient with them during this transition.
Give them extra attention and affection to help reassure them. Sticking to a routine as much as possible can provide comfort as well.
Providing extra love and reassurance
Your dog may seem sad, confused, or distressed after the loss of a family member. Their whole world has changed too. Give them plenty of extra love and affection during this time. Speak gently, pet them, give them soothing massages. Let them sleep with you at night if they want.
Just be patient and understanding of their process.
Keeping to a routine as much as possible
While grieving a loss is difficult for everyone, maintaining normalcy in your dog’s schedule can provide reassurance. Keep feedings, walks, play time, and bedtime on a regular cycle. Dogs find comfort in their routines.
Avoiding too many disruptions while everyone adjusts to the new family dynamic is important.
Involving them in remembrance activities
Humans often plan memorial services and remembrance events after a loved one dies. Including your dog can help them find closure too. Bring them when visiting gravesites or scattering ashes. Let them inspect meaningful objects like photos or clothing of the deceased.
Patientsly spend time helping them understand the person is gone. They may still look for them or wait by the door. Heartwarming rituals like casting flowers into rivers or planting trees help grieving dogs transition.
Conclusion
The loss of a loved one is always hard, but hopefully knowing that our canine companions share our grief and find ways to say goodbye can bring some comfort. Trust your dog’s instincts, accommodate their needs, and show them extra affection as you work through the grieving process together.
With time and patience, your dog’s behaviors should return to normal. If not, be sure to consult your veterinarian to rule out any medical issues. By supporting each other, you and your dog can mourn and heal from the loss.
The bottom line is dogs absolutely notice and react to the death of a family member. Their empathetic nature and loyal bond cause them to grieve alongside their human owners. Paying attention to your dog’s needs and providing them comfort as you deal with your own grief can help you both through this difficult transition.